Originally Posted by
tkdan 
Panda, welcome to SR. Interesting question. I always try to forgive people no matter what the situation, but that does not mean I forget it and things go back to the way they were. Of coarse it depends on how bad I was hurt. Are you sober, or planning on getting sober?
I am kind of on the fence. Staying sober means basically getting new friends because all my friends drink. It also means changing my life. Most of what I do revolves around some club. I am also in a music act so I spend a lot of time in clubs. Its going to be really hard. My roommate drinks as well. I was thinking maybe of cuting out hard liq and just maybe sipping wine on the occassional. The bottomline is, something has got to change for my life to progress. I realize that. But I don't even know what I would do if I didn't go to clubs.