Originally Posted by codeinewife

Welcome and hugs AmyK
You came to a great place.


"Dammit Amy, this is five things now! I quit porn, I quit sleeping with other women, I quit drinking, now you want me to quit this?! When will it end?? Why dont you just accept me for me?!"

I think maybe this statement is true.

Read here, read CoDependent No More by Melodie Beattie, find some Alanon or Naranon meetings you could go to, take the time to re-educate yourself as the wife of an addict. Even though you know from past experience, being married to an addict with children makes it a totally different spin.

You don't have to decide what to do right now. Just keep on working to figure out what it's going to take to get you the life you want for you and your children. Take a deep breath, and vent away - it helps a lot!