As far as your guilt, I will tell you that we all have guilt about something that we did to our addict children. Sometimes I am still overwhelmed with it. Just last night my husband asked me if there was something wrong with me since I seemed to want to take the whole guilt of my daughter's addiction on my shoulders. (I am still learning and sometimes going back to codieville to relearn my lessons
). I know it hurts to break ties with our addict children but we must get ourselves healthy because we are worth it. Hugs, Marle