Originally Posted by
Barbara52 
I notice a very large hole in your list. Is continued active alcoholism a deal breaker for you?
Yes! Thanks that can be number four! Why aren't I thinking of these things myself? Its like I'm asking my brain to think of things and its coming up a blank. Do you suppose its because I've never even considered these things before? I guess also my self respect must be quite low because looking at my list, there isn't much you can do to cheese me off completely.
Lily xxxxxxxxx