Originally Posted by
Barbara52 
Don't doubt yourself! You are doing everything you can for your nephew!
As to what to say to the others, well, perhaps just listening to them and talking about what you've done and then asking them what they think can be done?
Thank you Barbara, it just wears me out sometimes, everyone ringing me and asking me the same questions, telling me the same stuff, does my head in. I think because I live so near to my brother they think I see all that goes on and think I have all the answers. I can only do so much though, and I feel when I say that they think I'm cold and uncaring.