you said,
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I'm only 21 but I have been having a lot of problems with my drinking for the past 3 years
Alcohol problems? Drinking and driving , loss of job, problems with family etc. ??
I didn't get into trouble very time I drank but, every time, I got into trouble I'd been drinking.
Doesn't take a rocket scientist to put 2 an 2 together age is not important coming to terms with it is!!
Been around a young lay that has 19 years clean sober an she's only 34.
It's good you can open your mind to the fact drinking is a problem for you.