There is absolutely nothing wrong with your thinking and actions. I know that many times my daughter would have me thinking in circles. It took having some real distance from her to finally get my thinking straight. In fact I was just thinking today how she tries to make me the bad guy because I would like her to get clean. Well duh, any parent who loves their child wants the best for them. You want the best for your stepdaughter. The problem with our children is that they do not want the best for themselves. Hugs, Marle