I laid down the law last night. If he drinks while with the baby, she goes into daycare. A friend has agreed to keep her for awhile incase there's a waiting list at the daycares. He's mad and not speaking to me... pouting... like a child. He also went and got a blackberry as his new phone. I'm sure that was $300 we didn't need to spend. I'm also sure he did it just to hurt me - I'm in charge of finances.
He's being a d**k, but I refuse to respond to his 'poor me' routine. I'm starting to feel like I can see my path again.