Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
they say more shall be revealed, and often the longer we open up about what's REALLY going on, we see there is a whole lot MORE REALLY going on than we allowed ourselves to realize.........
This is so true and is the basis of denial.
I'd suggest reading as much as possible on denial - which is not denying consciously; rather it is a subconscious reaction. From where I stand today I am flabbergasted at the denial I lived in for so long.
Take care.