Thanks
I agree that we all need counseling. It seems the boys are fine when they go see him. Apparently (according to him) they have no issues over there. It's of course, with me who has to lay down the rules and enforce them.
As for the XAH.. He's still drinking alot. To the point that he has lost some of his vision. As of last week... he went to the dr and his bp had become so high that he's lost some sight and may never get it back. I thought that his drinking may have lightened up.. (not having to deal with him on a daily basis).. but obviously not.
I know the kids are dealing with issues over the divorce. I think they've taken it very well. We are all set up for counseling... I just have had my hands so full that we've only been once.