It sounds as if your husband is getting his medication from a doctor. My dh informed my doctor that I was abusing the medications she was giving me. She didn't say anything to him, but it flagged my record (I'm a military dependent). I was so angry at the time but really, I don't have to have the discussion when I go in for anything. My medications continue to be non narcotic and I am subject to pill counts for anything else (benzo's, which I no longer take) and my antidepressant (go ahead and count that..).
I am not giving you advice, just telling you what worked for us.