Carolyn:
Just a quick reply to his email TOTAL MANIPULATION!!!
First, my xabf did the same thing. I never gave enough. NEVER! I could have drained the blood from my body and given it to him in a transfusion and it wouldn't have been enough.
Second, I don't buy the new gf thing. Mine told me he would be upfront and honest with the next girl. I imagine the conversation would have been like that in your xabf's email and I would have heard about it that way.
Third, it's funny how much they worry about everyone knowing that they are an A. Mine sent a frantic email concerned that I would discuss this with anyone. If there's not a problem, then why hide it?
Fourth, Idependence is an excellent quaility. I got bashed for it too! So crazy!!!
I read your pm and have thoughts on that. I'll pm you back later tonight when I get out of the office : )
HANG IN THERE! YOU ARE DOING GREAT!!!