(((Hugs))) to you
there is no way to understand addict behavior....
my 'guess' is that she needs to be angry at you so she can justify her "choices"
but who knows....
in the meantime I too admire your recovery....
I am so sorry that you are going through this...
I pray that you continue to have the strength needed to move forward
I pray that your daughter's recovery is just around the corner...