Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
...I do not have a "program." I have a life and a self and that is what I work on...
This applys to me too. I know I have issues to work on and I am working those issues, but I have never thought of myself as needing or having a programme. Each day, I do the best I can, I try to bite my tongue and THINK beore I speak or act, and if I have a slip, I try to learn why and do better next time. I have not religiously worked the 12 steps, nor do I attend al-anon, although I believe these are great tools and support networks for alot of people. My ''recovery'' comes from a want to be a happier person than I currently am, and to understand myself deeper. There is less chaos in my life now than before.
Lily xxxxxxx