My daughter's biggest enabler is her addict boyfriend that makes a 6 figure income and buys all her drugs. She does not have to work or contribute to society in any way. Just sits and gets high. No way can I disable him. (Although I have thought of ways to permanently disable him physically
) So letting go was really the only choice that I finally had. It was also made easier by the fact that my daughter and her abf moved to a different city and I did not see her for 7+ months. Hugs, Marle