life does that from time to times. just hafta deal with it, it never goes away until we die and i don't think any of us are even sure about that one. its good to share whats bothering you though and that situation sure would bother me, hopefully it all will work out. i once hit a car with my jeep when backing out of a parking spot drunk. the person wasn't there but i left a note cause it was the right thing to do. i even went looking for the owner of the vehicle the next day. no where to be found. they never called....life happens...