Originally Posted by
LauraK 
I would love to see him go to another rehab program, but for me to look them up and find another for him to go to...I don't know, it's not like he's called me and asked me to help him find another rehab program to go to, although he does sound pretty down and out when I talk to him. I think he just is trying to *wish* the whole probation violation thing away.
That's a good point that you shouldn't have to do this for him. You could simply talk to him, tell him that eventually the police will come for him if he doesn't do something, and urge him to find another rehab. His best hope for staying out of jail is to get back into treatment and show his PO that he really does want to get clean.