Ha! No,..no!!!! Please!!!! I'm a very happily married man!!! Hmmm,..I never thought I was too close to this,..but maybe I am. I just talk to him every so often and try to listen to what he has got to say at that time......I just wanted to be sure that there isn't anymore a friend is supposed to do. Sounds like you all agree I have done perhaps too much listening...... OK then!!!