I am so sorry to hear about your situation. You should talk to your attorney about how to get him out of the house as every state has different laws. I filed for divorce two weeks ago and my AH is out signing the lease on his apartment right now, I told him that if he was not out by the end of the month that I would get an emergency support order and force him to pay his share of the household bills (he is used to spending all of his pay on himself).