Originally Posted by
depend_on_me 
That's it! That's exactly what I want. Acknowledgement. He would always make me feel and believe that I was the crazy one, when he was drinking. I want him to feel bad that he hurt me and express that. He was numbed out and drunk. I'm the one wearing all the scars. Just last week when I tried to have a deep conversation with him he said " why do you keep bringing this up? The past is done I cant change it!" I know but he can acknowledge it. Am I wrong for thinking this?
I don't think I can make someone "feel bad" about what they've done. That is different from acknowledging they hurt me. In the end, it all comes back to me - what matters in my life. If I'm not getting what I need from any relationship - I have to look at what I'm going to do about it, not look to them.