i have never had to put my son on the streets but there are alot of mothers here that have. i do know that putting them there will give them a chance to hit there bottom. i know this would be hard on your mom but it woould be the best thing for him & her too. how can he be looking for a job if he is in the bed all day. try to get your mom to a meeting. sending prayers up for your brother & you & your mom.