Thanks Linda and all of you,
I have been doing better today. Went to church and then talked to my pastor. I don't know what he said, but I know I felt better when I left there. So i am going on the theory to wait and see what will happen. I must say that I am leaning towards bailing him out tomorrow. I know it's probably stupid, and I know he doesn't deserve it. But the codie in me is hurting big time. Also, his counselor told me it would probably be okay to bail him out for now, knowing that he will probably have to serve some time in the future. I do think that he has been doing better overall, and i want to encourage him by bailing him out. Is that the epitome of enabling? God, just in writing this I'm thinking you all are calling me crazy.
krhea