Well, like my username says "sympathy gone"... I have seemed to detach too far. He'll say he hurt his back at work, and I really don't care, and that's sooo not me. It seems I have shut down all emotion so that I don't feel the hurt, but in turn I don't feel the happiness either (when the few times arise). I'm a a person who loves to love and laugh, and it seems like it's been forever since I've felt either. I'm concerned about his health, but he's an adult and can make he own choices. As can I. I'm just afraid of the choices that are in front of me.