DETACHMENT....
WHAT A BIG WORD TO THINK ABOUT WHEN YOU NEED TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR OWN LIFE NOW.........
Get on with your own life.......He will not last much longer if the drinking continues....and it doesn't look like he cares..... He wants the divorce and sounds like he is protecting you from what the future will hold for him.................
Think about it...........Once divorced you are no longer RESPONSIBLE......
YOU CAN GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE..................
Sending you loads of Hugs for the Moment.................(((((((((HUGS))))
Little Penguin