I relate to Frosts post 100%.
This is the first Christmas I didn't call my mom, also. Same feelings you mentioned.
Its so interesting to see my fellow acoas list what is going on with their parents, right there, in black and white...
I feel so different now from joining this board...like I got jerked out of the dark and into the light..acoa's need eachother. You guys speaking the truth and sharing your observations are so valuable to me. I realize my mistake now in isolating myself from fellow acoa's these past 2yrs.
I know you guys have given me a "confidence boost". I feel like I *DO* have something to offer to potential healthy friends.
I like your idea/tip about not "dumping" on potential friends. Its like, hey, look at what I've overcome, but, lets get on with life...I think there is a very real potential that the right person is going to admire that..the same way I would admire those qualities.
I feel stronger everyday..I get it from you guys and your strength.
Thank you GiveLove!
Growing