If bitch is defined as "a sane person trying to make sense out of an insane situation" then, yes, I suppose you could be described that way.
Remember - he is doing everything he can to keep the status quo so he can keep being irresponsible. He will keep trying different tactics to keep you off balance so he can go whoop it up again. This is not a sinister plot - it is the way alcohol addiction steers those in its grip.