Thank you all so much. I took something from each of your responses. So many kind and wise things were said. It makes you feel good to have responses to your threads, like someone cares. Its really nice. Well, He ended up with a broken leg and arm after last night. So he can't really get around. He got into a bar fight. Which means no work for a while as his job is labour. He claims this is it, he's getting his act together. I have my doubts as always.