OMG I remember something my AN told me once , she was at this crack house and the woman lived with her elderly father who had passed away and she did nothing for two days ! She said the woman needed time to clean up before the ambulance came to pick up his body !!!!!!!!! My niece said she ran out of the place .
Do something for yourself today and try not to worry (((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))) maybe one day she will see how hard work can actually be satisfying .