Originally Posted by
hbb 
The whole pregnant part of this has really screwed me up, but that too should pass right??!!!
What about when the baby is here? Will that be the new focus?
Even if it does pass, who is the Heather at the end of it? The one who waited for it to pass, or the one who got out there and MADE it pass?
All the talk of him, her, their flaws, their behaviors, their lacking, their issues; has focusing on that made you feel better? No. In the meantime they are living THEIR lives; what are you doing?
Ask the tough questions. Take the tough actions. Take control of YOUR life. Miracles will happen and they will have everything to do with YOU, YOU, YOU and YOU!!!!!