Originally Posted by
by myself again 
I'm so done with this, but how to find the guts/courage/balls/heart to leave. Any tips?
I share in your pain as well. Finding the courage to leave is not always easy. I have my daughter and my stepdaughter to worry about also. This decision will affect so many people. But, if I don't leave, nothing will ever change.. I have to do it and if she will then quit drinking and stay sober, then we can have a good life, if I stay with things the way they are, I do both of us a huge disservice.