Welcome back Baxter. There was a time that I thought that I could handle things all by myself but I found that even if I don't post as often as I used to there is still something that I need to read everyday. It helps me to stay focused. My daughter is still active too, but it does not drive me crazy like it used to. She is staying away for the holidays. I invited but I also said a prayer that if she was going to come with attitude that she not come at all. She texted me earlier in the week and bowed out. So I think I got my answer. Am planning on a quiet, serene Christmas no matter what she is doing. I hope that you find a way to have a good Christmas too and that you get to see your grandchildren. Hugs, Marle