What a mistake thinking I could do it alone.
First, Season Greetings to everyone and I have missed a lot. It will take me some time to catch up.
Second, I really thought I could handle everything on my own but the holidays have done me in. Maybe it's being cooped up with it all that's doing it. I lucked out and had little contact at all with my AD all year. Now her world is breaking apart so we all have to tumble down with her.
Her ex husband and his family evicted her from the house her and the kids were living in. Don't blame them. She's working a good job but thought her money was better spent than on rent and they had enough. She moved in with her Love of her Life and once they were on everyday living experiences the lust fell apart. He threw her and the kids out and so she thought mom would take her in. Wrong. I asked my husband and it was with the threat of a divorce from him that she would ever be allowed to stay here.
How can they still deny so much. She did end up spending the day here and I thought I had her in my sight the whole time but sure enough, what little quarters we had in a jar in the bedroom are gone. Plus she's treating my hubby like crap since he said no to her moving in. I finally told her to knock of the sucky attitude and of course I'm being accused of not giving her a break, that sometimes her life sucks and quite a bit of filthy things came out.
I'm just falling apart again.