Stop taking everyone else's inventory.
Take an honest + fearless inventory of yourself. Good and bad traits. Then focus on your own stuff to become all that you can be.
Just be very MINDFUL. When you know you are thinking someone else or are abt ready to speak or take action, STOP and ask yourself "Whose business is it anyway." Play only in your own sandbox and leave others to themselve.
You will Be amazed how wonderful and strong the universe and your family is when you give it the space. Sit back and watch and let things happen.
Fire yourself from being Boss of the World. I did. There are many unemployment benifits.