I have to add something else. Alcoholism is sprinkled almost as freely as blue eyes in my family tree. When I married and had children I was determine that addiction would never touch my babies. I have nothing against people having a glass of wine, or keeping something to drink in their homes. I simply choose not to. I honestly thought I was powerful enough to keep addiction out of their lives. I never saw heroin coming, never saw it coming. So much for the best of plans hum? Long and short of it is..it really does not matter. Stuff happens and we deal with it.