Done-with-it.....sending in for you warm hugs, you somehow always make me smile, you do you know, you just do.
BBD- For the holidays, in fact all year around I choose not to have anything addictive in my house. I thought especially when my son was living here it would ease a bit of temptation, truth of the matter is-it does not matter what you decide because our delightful addicts decide for themselves what they are going to do and sooner or later they will be in a situation where drinks are served. You were offered good advice about speaking to your son prior to the holiday. You are so busy thinking about everyone else do you hear your own voice? What would YOU like, as the Dr said..it's your house
PS you don't have to apologize for asking any sort of questions in my threads I've been here forever, don't let my low posting numbers fool you the number should read like a zillion
Everyone else - monster big hugs for each and every one of you
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