Advice on Sister’s Addiction
Hello
I need a bit of advice or pointing in the right direction.
I believe my older sister is addicted to Soma a muscle relaxant that is prescribed. She is abusing the prescription and taking more pills then the maximum amount, and I think she might be getting them online.
I’m not sure what to do or if there is anything, I should do or try.
My sister and I haven’t been close for over 10 years, and all my information is coming from our mom. I believe what my mom is saying, but I’m unsure of how to proceed, or even if I should proceed with something.
I am familiar with addiction... I grew up with both my parents being alcoholics from the day I can remember until I was 19 (now 40). I can usually spot an addict a mile away; it’s a hypersensitive thing for me. I won’t go through that again.
My sister doesn’t admit/realize she has a problem from what I can understand, and I realize that if she doesn’t want help I/we can’t make her get it. I get that, but I was thinking of one attempt at an intervention or something to see if maybe we can get her to wake up. Gotta try at least once don’t you????
If I did that how would I go about it since the last time I spoke to my sister was over a year ago, and not knowing where her husband stands (I think in denial land), and considering all my info is second hand, would I be overstepping?
Is it my place? They might think, “...what do I know, I haven’t been around, and mom has it all wrong and she’s over reacting...” etc...
What are your thoughts, idea’s and suggestions?
Horse Girl
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