"If someone tattooed the word "TOXIC" on these guys foreheads, it wouldn't do a bit of good. Sick women would still find them attractive." I see where I was wrong. I read the first sentence, and not the second. My apologies.
"When something pushes my button and I become defensive, it usually means that somebody has spoken the truth." No, I'm just being firm about this, not angry, not defensive. It simply does not apply to me.