Originally Posted by RosieM

Hello, all -
Don't do much posting but do a lot of reading here. Thanks to everyone! My AH is a binge drinker who refuses to get into a program. He has talked to therapists and has gone through rehab once. Was hospitalized with a brain aneurysm a year ago and has been unable to stop his binges. I think he has a transfer addiction to pornography as well - it's a hoarding thing, hundreds of mags and dvds stashed away in secret places around the house. He tries to do it alone and ends up right back at square one every time. He can go a few months w/o drinking/porning.

I know he's frightened and he seems sicker each time. I tossed him out after the most recent bout last week. Now he's saying he needs us to be "close" in order to get better.

I think I know what everyone is going to say about this but I need to hear/see it! Again, many, many thanks for the support and comfort from this group through the years. RosieM