Why do I hate him? I can't understand it, he's trying to get help, he's put himself on the line, done something he's never done before. He's broken, vulnerable, human even not just a strong and sturdy parent. He's needy, he's scared I'm sure. He's broken, and needs love I know, and his own daughter hates him, can't love him, can't be near him. Why?? I am in being unreasonable, am i cruel?