Welcome to SR Lea666!
Originally Posted by
lea666 We met and have only been out twice but he is wanting to see me everyday, still messaging constantly. I feel like he is moving way too fast...
Good for you for picking up on some red flags! Awhile back, I would have been flattered by the attention. I think differently about that now.
I think it's best to be honest. If something really bothers you about a person, what good is it to keep it to yourself at the risk of hurting his feelings? Both people should be comfortable in a relationship, not just one!
If you feel he's moving too fast and it makes you feel uncomfortable, tell him so. See if he respects your wishes and backs off. If not, you will have witnessed yet another red flag by not respecting you.
And, he may be trading one addiction for another. Or, it could be the signal of something else entirely. Too soon to tell!