dude is a ticking time bomb..............
That was my thoughts with the scripts he's taking..., my guess is with all that he's using the coke to function at work otherwise he'd be passed out. DO you know in just 36 hours without his meds youd have a REAL dangerous disaster on your hands?
My opinion, look up the local domestic abuse counsel, see what attorneys are on the counsel and meet with one of them to see how to get your children away safely, because yes he's going to make it a complete legal nightmare. In the meantime stay calm thorough everything and see what all you can document, everything. Id pretend like things were fine and give him NOTHING against you he can use, NOTHING.
Id also bet his colleages have more than a few suspiscions this is going on and I know how secretaries and assistants talk, and Im sure there talking...