Obsessed -
Take it from someone who KNOWS - a child can become an addict, even with the best upbringing.
I was raised by 2 very loving parents, given the best education, etc. Still, 3 years ago I was on the streets, smoking crack. My mom died 16 years ago, but I put my dad and my stepmom through hell worrying about me. I have tried to tell my dad that it wasn't anything he & mom did, or didn't do, that caused me to be an addict.
Today, I have almost 9 months clean and I can thank my dad for that, too. He allowed me to suffer my consequences, and I decided that getting high just wasn't worth it anymore.
Please, believe me and the other great parents here - YOU did not cause your child's addiction.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy