I too say go by his actions. Spiritual fitness is a daily practice. Today, my RAH is sober but I know that that can change on a dime....or rather a puff. I don't live in fear of that anymore - it helps me to work my own program and stay in today. Enjoy where you are - but keep your eyes open. Addiction is a chronic relapsing disease - what's important though are the choices he makes whenever that happens. Sounds okay for now! Enjoy where you are and trust your gut. What is it saying to you? Hugs and prayers - Donna