DeLynn ~ there are lots of paths to the same end! If it's possible for you to try another group (and it doesn't seem like it is), give it a try. I do meetings, counseling and have taken Barbara's route. While I do like the sense of comraderie at meetings, I have to say my greatest successes have come from reading, self examination, and opening up to/listening to my HP.
Some people are just not comfortable with the meeting format. Some people aren't ready for them, or aren't able to get to them. Do what you can, and what feels best for you. You may find yourself wanting to get to a meeting again down the road, and thats okay, too. This is a great place to come to stay in touch with others who care and understand, to benefit from experience, and to share what you need to share. Take what you need, and leave the rest. But keep yourself open to where your HP leads you!