A question about setting boundrys
Do you think that all boundrys should be stated to the person you are setting them for. In my case I have stated certin things and in other cases I have just told my self that I won't do something like buy his beer and then just not do it. He knows I don't want him to drink and I make it a point to not tell him I am going to the store so he doesn't know to ask and over time He has come to realize I am not doing it and just does it for him self.
Tell me your thoughts.
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