Hi Chandra,
I'm pretty much in the same spot as you although I've been separated for almost 2 years. I'm slowly but surely realizing that everything that comes out of he's mouth is all bull****. Lies...Lies....Lies.... it's all he knows.
Can you drag the boxes to the front porch so you won't have to lift them. If you didn't have to see him it'll be easier on you. Maybe have a freind come over and lift them for you. Try to think of something becasue seeing him and listening to him is only going to give you more heartache and confusion. Trust me!!!!
I'll be thinking of you.
Love,
Galnva