(((((Cathy)))))) It seems that being right can feel lonely. Remember this too shall pass. This is a good time to rally support. Call friends to spend time with
this weekend. Any new comedies out to see? Distraction is sometimes a good option.
Are you still in Love with your EX ? If so, I hope he chooses counseling.
I am in my 3rd marriage. My 2nd divorce was tough. But I am married to a wonderful man who is love of my life for 13 yrs now. The yrs. betw marriage turned out to be great too. Wonderful friendships were developed. I think things happen just as they should. You are having to set some boundaries and unfort. addicts usually just react by estrangement and w/holding as they don't offer unconditional love.
I know these are tough times. My heart goes out to you. ((((((Cathy))))))