Shannon
Congrats on 10 days! and also for finding the joy in your hobby again!
Yes, the initial shock of all the things we let go while drinking can be alarming (Sober = Son of a B****, Everything is Real!)...
Maybe you and your boyfriend can start attending meetings together? At least you wouldn't have to fight about where to go for a date!!! ;-)
Great job, and remember -- one day at a time....
Ken