Originally Posted by
hadenoughnow 
it is just a living arrangement that he uses to stay in denial and protect his addiction.
I honestly believe that the living arrangement is a means to protect his denial and addiction. I believe that the living situation as it has stood for the last 6 months, living separtly is also a way for him to stay in denial and protect his addition. The only difference now is that it's not as easy for him. He now has to take care of himself and that doesn't seem to be working out to well for him. He has lost weight since the breakup (weight he cannot afford to loose) and mine has stayed the same. Darn, that's not fare. LOL, Okay a silly attempt at humor.