Originally Posted by
stormyautumn 
Also she says ex. If they are divorced and she really feels he is a threat to the child she should notput his name on the birth certificate. That way if he wants any rights or visitation he will have to go through the court, which from personal experience addicts usually don't find time for.
That's a sneaky one but good. If his name isn't on the birth certificate, he would have to go thru the time and expense of proving paternity before anything would be decided in terms of visitation.
I don't know how you feel about sneaky Starting over but its worth thinking about anyway. Again an attorney would be the best to give advice on handling all this.